Live Life With Purpose

August 31, 2008

Today I logged in FS, and found out that someone had emailed me, commenting on my ‘shoutout’ post: ‘Live Life with Purpose’. My response was: “Well, Dear .. I do live life with purpose, otherwise I would not make any last minute changes in my decisions”. 😀

This is not a joke, My Dear … It is to assure that the choices I make may serve the purpose that was set right from the beginning.

In many cases, we get confused when facing a lot of choices and tend to delay in making decision. The only way to approach this situation is by weighing the pros and cons in relation to the ‘desired effect’, which in other words means ‘purpose’ 🙂 . To some people, best solutions turn up at the final moment. To others, decisions are best when promptly made and they stick by it resolutely. What you can do is find a way that works for you!

In other cases we often complain of not having any choices at all. The truth is .. there are times when we face dilemma of having to choose between unsatisfactory alternatives: either “to accept”, “to repel” or “to fight”. We are always given with choices but the unfavorable situation might lure us to turn away from reality.

Attaining our purpose has everything to do with the act of choosing and deciding. That’s life! Questions often asked are: “What if there are not enough information or resources to support a sound decision? What if we make the wrong decision? Wouldn’t we go off track?”

Hmm … my answer would be: So what? That’s perfectly fine. You can always get back on track. We learn through our mistakes. We achieve mastery by exploring, experimenting, experiencing and correcting. That is how we normally learn in life no matter which turn we take. So .. just live your life with passion!

When choices are laid … and when a decision is made … then there must be a sense of purpose involved. Regardless of the quality of the outcome and the undesired impacts, the person has exercised “living life with purpose” and there is always invaluable lessons to learn 🙂

Feeling Empty Inside?

August 29, 2008

Each of us have heart’s desires which might be consciously realized or not, related to either one or two numbers below which are associated with certain needs.

When our heart’s desires are fulfilled, we sense satisfaction or tranquillity ~ a state of peace and calm.

When our heart’s desires are neglected ~ emptiness and unhappiness are likely to reside within us, no matter how succesful we might appear to be.

Each of us are expectantly the ones who understand the food that feeds our soul. Unfortunately, many of us, for different reasons, are disconnected with our inner-self and put great efforts in compromising and pleasing others who claim to know about what are best for us.

If you feel emptiness … ongoing loneliness … voids deep inside your heart .. then this is your wake-up call. Listen to what your inner-voice has to say: You deserve to be happy ~ with the source of happiness defined by you! So … go for it!

True happiness is the inner joy which nothing outside can destroy ~

Inner- versus Outer- Self

August 28, 2008

If anyone asks me about my favourite colors, I would immediately answer: Bold Red, Black and White! Why? I don’t know exactly. However, Green and Orange are often the colors of choice for my clothings. Why? Hmm.. now I’m starting to figure out why.

When I studied Numerology, I understood that our heart’s desire might conflict with our outer personality …OR .. it might not! Depending on each person, of course (don’t forget ~ each of us are unique individuals). The heart’s desire is the inner motivation that underlies our choices and actions ~ knowingly or unknowingly. While the outer personality is how we project ourselves to the world ~ or how we want to be seen by others. In my case … Bold Red, Black and White represent my hidden desires .. whilst Orange and Green reflect my outer personality. Now, I’m going to relate these colors to certain characteristics.

Bold Red, Black and White ~ My Heart’s Desire (Number 22 modified by Number 11)

As far as I know, Bold Red is associated with energy, strength, determination, passion, desire and love. Black is often related to power, elegance, formality and mystery. White is all about light, goodness, innocence, purity and virginity.

Orange and Green ~ My Outer Personality (Number 3 modified by Number 4)

Orange combines the energy of Red and the happiness of Yellow. It represents enthusiasm, fascination, joy, creativity, attraction and encouragement. While Green is the color of nature. It symbolizes growth, harmony, freshness and fertility.

For some of you .. the colors associated with me might seem like a dazed mismatch. To others who know me well .. I’m sure the previous examination could give a clearer picture of my personality and comprehensively explain the kind of person I am ( please don’t smile 😀 ).

Some people are easy to read because the colors of their heart’s desire are exactly the same with what are captured by their surrounding. They are often described as ‘being true’. However, it doesn’t mean that those whose nature are contradictory are ‘untrue’. Sometimes they don’t even understand why they are like that. It takes a lot of effort for them to harmonize their inner- and outer- self.

What I’m trying to say, My Dear Friends … it takes time to see the combination of colors that beautify the people who are close to us .. our love ones. Yet, we might not be fortunate enough to see all the rays of their colors.

It might take your whole life to understand someone completely. So be patient .. accept .. and forgive. Enjoy the process of getting to know the person 😉

In My Life

August 27, 2008

~ The Beatles ~

There are places i’ll remember
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends i still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life i’ve loved them all

But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When i think of love as something new
Though i know i’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know i’ll often stop and think about them
In my life i love you more

Though i know i’ll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know i’ll often stop and think about them
In my life i love you more
In my life i love you more

My Rebirth

August 25, 2008

This is the day of my rebirth. The time has come for me to revive and build up on new life opportunities, challenges and changes ~

For some time now I have met new encounters and had deepen some mutually friendly feelings with a bunch of long-known gentle spirits; souls who have touched and enriched my life. (I’m blessed ~). I’m glad that some still remain, though some have departed to pursue their next journey (still learning to give in and to let go ~). God bless you all, my dear ones. I pray that each of you live life to the fullest.

Whilst for you .. R.Y.A.N. ~ thank you for your everlasting warmth and guidance. I wish I could hear, feel and see more of you. I welcome and cherish all the love God is sending me through you. God bless you, My Sweet Angels ~